No deep titles today

My car is sick. I am so so sad. But on the upside, yesterday I received confirmation that I didn't mishandle the situation with my friend the other day. It's interesting how some relationships are always easy, no matter how much time has passed. Is that a hallmark of a true friendship? I envy men some days because they don't really have to think about stuff like this. On the other hand, women don't get blue balls ;)

Today's outfit: baby blue off the shoulder sweater, gray cords, black and silver flats with bows, wide grey belt, grey bracelet.

Friends...how many of us have them?

Why is so much of life spent biting your tongue and doing things you don't really want to do? If that just part of being a grown up? Does it make me a selfish person because I'm sick of doing both? Of course I'm going to say no. But if someone is supposed to be your best good friend, doesn't that mean you shouldn't have to spend as much time biting your tongue?

Okay, so I got into an argument with a friend regarding some New Year's plans, and I had to bite my tongue (like I've been doing for over 2 years now) and I'm just a little tired of it. So I decided to stop. I wasn't rude, but I let her know how I felt, because if we're truly good friends, I should be able to do that. She wasn't pleased, but she said she understood. I don't know what's going to happen with that friendship, but to be honest, I don't care nearly as much as I thought I would. To me, the important thing was that I could stand up and say "this is how I feel and I won't apologize for it". I don't always agree with my friends, but I want them to feel like they can come to me and express their feelings.

Clothes:
I forgot to post on Friday, but I wore my brown shirt, brown printed skirt, brown footless tights, green corduroy jacket, and brown flats. Today I'm a true diva with my purple coat, black leotard, black patterned pants (borrowed), gold bangle, gold and purple bracelet (borrowed), thick gold beaded bracelet (borrowed), and gold earrings with purple stones (borrowed). I do love borrowing stuffs to accentuate the stuff I own...much cheaper than shopping